The 90/10
secret (definitely worth a read!!)
The 90/10 secret is incredible! Very few know and
apply this secret. The result? Millions of ppl are suffering undeserved stress,
trials, problems, and heartache. They neva seem to be a success in life. Bad
days follow bad days. Terrible things seem to be constantly happening.
Theirs is constant stress, lack of joy, and
broken relationships. Worry consumes time, anger breaks friendships, and life
seems dreary and is not enjoyed to the fullest. Friends are lost. Life is a bore
and often seems cruel. Sounds familiar? If so, do not be discouraged. You can
different! Understand and apply 90/10 secret. It will change things!!
What is this secret?
10% of life is made up of what happens to you.
90% of life is decided by how you react. What does this mean? We really have no
control over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from breakin
down. The plane may be late arriving, which throw our whole schedule off. A
driver may cut us off in traffic. We have no control over this 10%. YOU
determine the other 90%!! How? By your reaction. You cannot control a red
light, but you can control your reaction. Don't let ppl fool you. YOU can
control how you react!!
Here are some ways u can apply the secret:
If someone says somethin negative bout u, do not
be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You do not have to let
the negative comment affect you! React properly and it will not ruin your day. A
wrong reaction could results in losin a friend, being fired, getting stressed
out, etc...
How do you react if someone cuts you off in
traffic? So you loose your temper? Pound the steering wheel? Do you curse? Does
your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them? WHO CARES if you arrive
10 secs late at work? Why let the blue car ruin you drive. Rmb the 90-10
principle, and do not worry bout it! You are told u lost you job. Why lose sleep
n get irritated? It will work out. Use your "worrying" energy and time
into finding another job. The plane is late. It is goin to mangle your schedule
for the day. Why take out ur frustration on the flight attendant? She has no
control over what is goin on. Use your time to study, get to know the other
passenger, etc. Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse. You now
know the 90-10 secret. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results.
=-=taken from an article i found somewhere in my
room=-=
hMmmz... i find this rather true and also useful
i guess... REally feel so much betta after reading this..... it helps alot to
destress and also to take note of ur emotions more yarhz.... So hope it will be
useful to YOU... (yarh, you who's reading my blog ritex now... ) ^_^ tk care ppl....
*sTay HappiE*
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Sunday, May 23, 2004
ok shit.
Y do i feel strange n weird?!?! no.... I shDn'T be feelin' this wAe...
*gEt ouT of my MinD*
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HmmZ... let's see...not really in the mood to blog.. partly cuz my life gonna be boring the nxt few daes... from monday till wed gonna be at HOME... yarh HOME.... i noe wat u ppl are thinking... (like since how long ago Emily has been stayin at home?!?!) hahaz.. yarhz... but realli nth to do the next few days... perhaps I'll take a break baz.... Hmmz... but still, anione still free can ask mi out.. lolx... cuz I dun think i can make it for 3 daes.. kekex....
Hmmz... well nth much to blog really... so ciaoz ppl... sorrie My life's realli boring de...
*CoopEd-Up foR 3 DayS*
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Saturday, May 22, 2004
feelin' veri veri bored ritex now... waiting for the time to pass so can go to Van's place lorx.. cant wait to see the new stuff she bought... she's alwaes so fortunate, go out with mum... mum pays.... not like mi... go out with my dad, den dad will sae... "buy for wat?!?!" hAiz... den it takes an awful long time that he buys stuffs for me.... surprisingly, this year my bdae... he asked " girl, wat u wan for ur bdae?" I guess this qns came out of no where... juz when I DON'T need anithin at all... so i cant' decide either... perhaps juz give mi cash?!?! hehex.. i dunno.. den this wae i can give my frenz a treat or juz save up the $$ till i find somethin to buy that is....
*tiME PasSes so sLowLy thEse dAeS*
listening to: Lee Hom- Ni Bu Zai (you're not around)
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SupEr tiREd noW.... Juz came back from bbq at my cousin's place... N i still smell of bbq... i dunno y lehx... alreadi bath... hahaz... maybe cuz I've been standing at the bbq pit... lolx... but the food was good... lolx... of cuz i bbq the food myself larz... hahaz... so it tasted even betta...
After everythin, still got food leftover as usual... So we played open number... can sae i first time play lidat... usually i would play "Zhong ji mi ma"... but they sae not exciting... cuz it's like the person setting the number wun get a chance to kenna double time.. hahaz...however in "open number" everyone can kenna n even double... hahaz... So if the numbers add up are even, the person hu kenna have to eat somethin... if it's odd the person has to drink a full cup of orange.. lolx... we at first played onli like eating a single item n drinkin a cup of drink... but we found it slow n draggy... so we increased the stakes... if it's even, den eat 3 items... if it's odd, den drink a cup of drink plus 2 items... UNfortunately, i kenna 3 times lorx... twice is eating... once is drinking... so full i tell u... hahaz...
gonna go gym tml again i think to burn it off... hahaz.. if not i feel super guilty eating so much, I'm suppose to be on a diet manz... !!
*smEll oF bbQ*
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Friday, May 21, 2004
oKay it's like exactly 2 hours after i woke up... Hmmmz... This prooves it.. I'M BORED AGAIN.... lolx... OKay ... yeah slept like for 11 hours.. cant believe it when i woke up and saw the clock... hahaz... =p ni waez... I juz called up the tuition agency... apparently the I/C wasn't around... so I'm still jobless yarhz... haiz... realli need the cash manz... if not I'm not goin to enjoy the rest of my holidaes... siAnz...
OKay. Shd i go out now?? alone?? i dunno lehx... though i noe nite got bbq... but not realli lookin forward to it lehx... I'm like still in the shopping mood today, but juz can't find any suitable company... Van's out with her mum... so i guess that's left with myself.. (hahaz sounds like she's my onli fren.lolx she's gonna kill mi if she reads this.. ) uMz... Shd i go out or notx? hAiz.. juz wished that i have my other half to pei mi... but sad 2 sae, i dun have any, not even a potential one ritex now... lolx...
*sTucK wiTh 4 wAllS anD mY pOOh... *
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Thursday, May 20, 2004
Hmmmz... went out with Juliana(sec sch fren) and some of my ex-Kenny Rogers' colleagues... Well, went to play pool for a few hours on an empty stomach.... got super hungry after that... den expecting to eat a gd lunch.... but den went to CS foodcourt in the end... ordered ban mian.. it was realli bad... i like ate onli 1/4 of it... hahaz.... so unsatisfied... mi n my fren were like complaining lorx...lolx...
Den after that terrible lunch, we went to Kenny rogers' to visit visit.... hehex.... den felt like eating muffins... so the supervisor gave mi 3 FOC muffins...hahaz... but i onli ate 2... okok that's to make up for my horrible lunch....hahaz
den after that we left for bugis.. mi n juliana... bought some stuff over there... bought a new wallet and also a pair of earrings... got cheated haiz... the earrings i bought was $5... but i saw it at another shop for onli $2.90... soBz... forget it... alreadi bought it... i decided not to buy things from tt shop alreadi.. lolx..
okie tml will be slackin at home till evening den goin for a bbq... my dad has been complaining about mi not being at home at all during the holidaes... hahaz...
okok here are some pics of chalet and the new stuff i bought... enjoys....
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SmilEZ... hehhEx... taken ouTsiDe thE chAlEt...
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My new wallet... cute ritex?!?
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twister!~!~ in the middle of the nitex...lolx..
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BehiND bARs... lEt us ouT!~!~
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My new pAiR of eArriNGs!! (got cheated... siAnz...)
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Wednesday, May 19, 2004
btw... forgot to add another thing... I juz got my second ear hole pierced on my right... HmMMz... dun ask mi y i did it... it wasn't realli planned... mi n my frenx were juz walkin pass this shop... saw the sign " $5 for each hole piercing " den we juz went for it... dunno y but i felt nth...
Guess many of u wondering wat's becumin of mi... more holes pierced, cutting my hair realli short den rebonding it.. hAiz... i also dunno lar. Maybe juz change the wae i look i guess.. i realised many ppl that i knew have changed their appearance somehow... i got realli bored and wanted to try somethin new lorx... but kinda upset when ppl keep goin..."Emily!! y u cuT ur hAir?!?!" haiz... makes me think that it's not nice... cuz they keep askin... i dunno larz... wateva it is, I juz look new... but still the same ol' me inside i guess... or i hope...
*bRAnD nEw*
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HEyA pplE... Im back from chalet... ok ok not exactly wat i would think is a chalet... it was actualli more of a luxury resort.. lolx... the chalet was like So bIG... So sPacIouS anD for the 1st time, i slept so soundly... ahaz... tt explains y i still have the energy rite now. lol.. Anw it was a gd deal, Bungalow chalet for 3 daes n 2 nites onli at $75!! cheap ritex?!?! hahaz... so each of us paid bout $14 including the food n all... yeah... Hmmz.. this time the guys of my class organised it.. I muz sae that they did a realli gd job!! a Pat on the back for u guys and also Thumbs up!! =) ThAnkS yArhz...
OKok... the few daes spent at the chalet hMmmz... actualli quite relaxing.. tokin to my classmates which most of them i wun be seeing as often in Yr2 so i guess i realli enjoyed that and will miss them... Esp VaneSsA(mummy) n ZhEnling( xiAo mei). Hope u two will not forget mi wor... hehex... ok, let's see wat interesting stuff happened at the chalet..
First dae Nth much happened... we had a simple bbq at the end of the day. simple food and little variety but amazingly everyone was full yarhz... den at nite we went to the park to play like mad... climb on the spiderweb all datz.. spinning n spinning on some sort of um... i dunno.. ferris wheel?!?! hahaz.. slanted one though.. kinda giddy after that. but we gals were screaming in the midst of all the silence.. imagine it was alreadi past midnite... lolx....
Second day... well... most of the ppl were stoning cuz they didn't sleep... guess i was the onli pig who realli slept undisturb..hahaz... cuz i got realli tired after takin medicine and i guess tt helped mi to slp lorx... at nite we had Steamboat!!! yeahz... dun believe it?!?! but realli steamboat inside the chalet... so kewl ritex.. i first time see got such thing... All 14 of us squeezed into one table... like big reunion lidat... but den the food tasted realli gd... and there were still leftovers!! hahaz... At Nite was the realli furnie, fun n also um scary part... haha... we watched Ju-On... one of the guys brought the vcd... so we tot... might as well do somethin heart-thumping.. lolx... den so furnie... cuz the show wasn't exactly scary... but um... the expressions on our faces n the comments we made, caused everyone to luff and it realli broke the atmosphere though we had the lights off.. hahaz... cuz we couldn't stop commenting bout the ghosts in the show...hahaz.... overall, movie was complicating as i kept asking Eric (who was sitting beside mi), wat the show was about... imagine throughout the whole show i was like "huh? Huh?? y lidat? i dun understand..." lolx... hope he wasn't irritated by mi... keekx...
Obviously second and also the final nitex... everyone collapsed and went to slp lorx.. hahaz... till nxt morning which is todae... we had the energy to eat Mac breakfast den still went shopping a bit b4 returning home... kekex... I would sae the chalet was a total success!! Realli lookin forward to goin out with my classmates again during the holidas... cuz im super bored... Im not an indoor person u see, cant keep mi locked up facing 4 walls... (okok i made it sound real bad) hAhaz... but it's true... I'll go crazy.. lolx... so Anyone who feels bored too, can ask mi out... I'll surely go if I'm free... ^_^
okiex... time to go take a bath and catch some tv b4 i cum back online tonitex...
*HypEd-Up*
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Sunday, May 16, 2004
ok im tired now and not in the bez of moods... Anyone can juz trigger that time bomb of mine.... my class chalet's at Pasir ris gonna be tml and looks like i dun have the mood either... somethin's veri wrong with mi. Everyone seems to piss mi off today... i noe it's not a veri nice thing to sae... but i dunno wat's up with myself either...
Todae didn't turn out veri well as i was extremely tired the whole day. Dunno y my medicine which i took last nite onli had an effect in the morning... which is like so lagging...
mEeting tml at 10am againz... till the afternoon... den rush down to chalet... i realli hope i wun collapse out during chalet tt's all... StupiD fLU lasted for like a week alreadi and im still not fully recovered... i hate that feeling... everyone around u is like so hyped up while u are the onli one there tt's not and still suffering.. hAiz....
GottA gEt my beauTy sLeep soON onCe i'm done with packing my bag which seems to be such a chore to mi at the moment.... CiAoz pplE...
*M.I.A for the nxt 2 days*
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Saturday, May 15, 2004
Thank You for the cross Lord
Thank You for this love so great
Sharing all my sin and shame
In love You came
And gave Amazing grace
Thank You for this love Lord
Thank You for the nail pierced hands
Bearing all my sin and shame
In love you came
Forgiveness and embrace
Chorus:
Worthy is the Lamb
Seated on the throne
Crown You now with many Crowns
You reign victorious
High and lifted up
Jesus Son of God
The darling of heavens crucified
Worthy is the Lamb
Hmmm... had a realli great time at cell group todae... It was awesome and this song's great... erm... the lyrics are somethin lidat cant realli rmb... but will edit it if i noe the correct one... ^_^
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Hey PeEpS!!! my internet connection is finally back... yeAh mAnz. but kinda tired to realli blog rite now... hahaz... hMMmz.. but still, I'm glad cuz I'm like realli lost in the world w/o being able to cum online...lolx... it's like I dun realli watch tv all datz... so being online is realli ME... hahaz...
Well... much has happen over the past few days.. firstly, after that drastic hair-cut... i rebonded my hair yarhz... hmmmz... super straight n flat now.. kinda looks weird. (will try to post up a pic here larz..) den u ppl see le can give comments... so far everyone is like... " Y u cut ur hair~!~" eRm... no particular reason realli!! N yarhz... of cuz it's not over any guy too... ( so dun think my problems all arise from dere' oki) I juZ feel like cutting it short and trying somethin different for a change lorx... yArhz tt's bout my hair...
Hmmz... ok I've joined NDP motivators... hehe first time. think gonna be quite fun.. so ppl try to catch me on tv on NDP lolx... though i noe it's hard cuz it will be like 600 of us...hehex...
well... i can go on n on... but I've gotta catch up on reading my frens' blogs first... shall blog more tml.... tk care pple....
*huRrAy*
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Wednesday, May 12, 2004
ok here i am back to blogging again.... let's try to recall wat happen for the past week...
First... my training camp. We officials went one day earlier to stay n prepare all the camp stuff... next day... the dae the OLs came in... Hmmz.. response wasn't as expected as like over 10 ppl didn't turn up.. well, everythin had to go on... First day was bad enuff as it rained... causing us to carry out our wet weather program instead of the outdoor games... which was like more fun...
Second day of camp: campfire night... I admit the fire was indeed eRm... impressive when the fire ball lighted it up... but den kinda small.. hehex... but gd enuff for a small school... well, i didnt realli have the campfire mood.... so juz sat down with Joanne(my kah kee) at the walkwae of tembusu groove. den watch the OLs having super fun but den i was alreadi half dead....
Last dae of camp: Final Clash!!! yeAp, we had it with biz sch as they were also havin their camp within tt time.... so decided to have final clash wif them... kinda messy lar... can see that we were still united within our own schools... didn't realli have much interaction between the 2 schools... basically is juz all the dancing, singing, cheering.. bla bla bla....
okok that was like veri summarised lorx... im in no mood to type out everythin... hard to xplain too..... now my mind is not realli awake.... considering that my body is not its normal self these daes... lolx... been slackin much..... actualli kinda missing the camp where everyone was so enthu and so much fun despite our tired bodies and minds... hahaz....
Next up comin events during my holidaes: CLASS CHALET!! next week... so Im gonna disappear once more again...hahaz.. well realli lookin forward to it cuz next sem im not gonna see most of them le.. *soBz*....
*signing off....*
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Location: at my FreN's plAce (Van)
hey ppl...
ok i noe u ppl miss mi.. lolx... i disappeared for the whole week i muz say... or even more than that.... firstly a few words to some ppl...
didi: sorrie arhz.... didn't contact u or anithin but was busy at training camp... den when i came home fell terribly ill.... (fever of 38.7 degrees) yarh... practically dying lidat.... den my home phone n internet got totally cut off... so no form of communication.. hp veri ex... i hope everythin will be fine soon enuff..hAiz...
Siwei: yarh... I noe u miss mi..hahaz will be seeing u on fridae i hope... quick think of where to go... but im sorry beach may be out as Im still recovering... (still having a flu *sobS*)
Judy: yeAh, muz sae u are the first hu dare to put the heart on ur bag.. lolx... out of the few ppl i gave it too... all refuse to put on their bag... hehex.... glad that u liked it~!~
ok shall continue... goin out for lunch soon.. but I'll juz sae a few stuff den tonite den continue again... well ... firstly... Training camp was superb n fun larz... but super tiring!!! few conflicts here n there but guess tt's wat bonded us together..
actually got lots of things to sae bout the camp... tonight den i sae... super hungry now... well... b4 i go... my results...
biochemistry 1: B
Maths Stats: A
Anatomy n physiology: B
CSAS:B+
management acc: A (YESH... my cds got an A the paper tt i worri most bout..lolx...)
GPA:3.42 (exactly the same for sem 1 lorx... )
AND..... i got into top 25% yeAh!! i deserve a reward.... but dunno from hu... im like broke now... haiz....
k larz... my fren is rushin mi to go eat le.... ciaoz ppl...got lotsa catchin up to do with u all... But later... my stomach first... lolx... eating is a blessing...
ps:btw.... did i sae i cut my hair realli realli realli short??? cant tie it now..
*feeLin' Gd*
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Monday, May 03, 2004
ok... tml's the big thing already... Orientation Leader Training Camp... i somehow wished that it was all over... but den gonna be stuck in the camp for 4 whole daes... lolx.. hope I'll have fun and also slacking since Im not the participant... cuz in the organising comm.. lolx.. so can lag abit.. hehex.. hMmmz... hopefully will get to noe ppl betta durin' the camp too... =) tt's bout all i expect from the camp i guess.. and also hopefully it'll be a success after all dat hard work... keke.....
So ppl dun u all miZ mI... hhaz... cuZ i woulDn't evEn noE if I'll hAv the enErgy to mIz u pplE.. (nAh.. jUZ kiddinG) ... Anythin u ppl can alwaes call or sms mi lorx... anitime.... buT not in The miDdlE of thE niGhT.. hahaz... tk Care....
Found thiS song lyrics nice- "so kiss me and smile for me, tell me that u'll wait for me, hold me like u'll neva let mi go.. Cuz I'm leaving on the jetplane, I Don't Know when I'll be back again. Oh baby, I hate to go.... "- I realli hoPe thAT my fuTure speciAl somEone WiLL treAt mi in SuCh a wae..... GuesS it'S harD to fiND uR othEr hAlf...
*leAvin foR cAmp*
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Sunday, May 02, 2004
Somethin's wrong with mi today.. kinda blur.. hahaz.. morning somehow i ended up at mac opposite TP. kinda waited for a while... den decided to clear my smses... den i came upon the sms bout the meeting... den realised I was at the wrong place.... supposed to be at Tampines interchange mAc!~!~ hahaz... so took a bus back to interchange... hAiz... wasted like $1 plus plus of transportation...lolx...
was supposed to go to the beach today.... didn't go in the end.. haiz.. .cuz partly the weather didn't allow mi to go.. hahaz and den many of them didn't wan to go.... so the whole day i spent it with my AS club ppl lorx... preparing for nxt week camp... so will be MIA next week....
ok feel like writing somethin different todae... haaz... let's see.... let's write bout...
Infatuation: u experience heart-thumping, butterflies in the stomach, rush of adrenaline feeling when u see that certain someone. U miGhT finD urseLf attRacted to onli his/her looks.....
genuine interest: u'll xperience faster heart beat, (until ur heart feels like it's fallin out), moths in the stomach( nah.. juz kidding), rush of Hydrochloric Acid(ok im kidding), juz that U'll wun feel urself.... U'll keep thinking bout the person the whole time. He/ She affects ur moods... like tt veri same person could make u happie or cry too...
OK thAT's all for now... btw... this is tot of by Mi n Vanessa... copyright... 2004....
*cIaoZ*
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Saturday, May 01, 2004
hMmmz.... juZ read mY fReN's Blog (lester)... kinda all Bout Love.. hehex.. neva Knew a guY hU couLd sAe so mUch bout Love... hehex.. juz kidding... well somehow i feel that those lyrics were meaningful.. Guess when u are totally in love, u'll juz go crazy and wun be ur normal self huh... hMmmz... Guess no matter whether guyS of gAls.. all Do feel dA samE wae... okok enuff bout L.O.V.E....
hahaz... had a gr8 day today.... afternoon went to meet my fren... and we made dumplings... hahaz... they were so gd!! we tot tt we qualified to sell them... lolx.... anw...there were others hu tried them.... like my cousins' family and practically my church members.. lolx... i had church seminar at nite u see... so brought the dumplings for them to try.... guess wat?!?! finished everything.. which was like 100 over dumplings.. haha!! and there were like less than 15 ppl present.. lolx... so amazing... they are realli gluttons!! =x hahaz.... ni waes.... had a gr8 nite.... once again being touched by the Lord... well.... cried my heart out... tt's all i rmb... hehex..... feel refreshed now...
meeting later at 9am... and maybe goin to da beach after that~!~! yeSh!! it's been so long since I've been there... so hAppiE.... hoPE tml weather will be fine....
*ReFrEsHing*
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